Okay, so I wrote that long piece from the heart yesterday but of course my feelings about this are not completely in accordance with my wife's and my wife's family and my parents either. Joy. I'm not battling that many fronts, sorry.
So despite being completely against it on principle, I've taken down the photos that were online until such a moment as I have a better system for sharing them out and choosing which are public and which are for the fam.
I'm all done on this topic now.